“Someone’s opinion of you doesn’t have to become your reality” Les Brown
Too many people fail in life because of the way they see themselves. Reality is created by Your way of seeing things.
Also, there are people who always listen to what others have to tell them. “You are not good, You can’t do that, Who do you think you are? ” and then they internalize these words, and start thinking that way, and then the inner voice, the critical voice start saying the same critical words. Consciously, be aware of them.
There are several approaches on how to deal with it:
one: tweak the voice into a comical kind of voice ( think of Donald Duck or Goofy, Minnie, etc. )
two: tell the voice: ” I am aware of you and I understand you disagree, but I know what I can do to succeed” , ;
three: shout in your head or physically “Shut up! I know who I am and that I can do it, I can succeed! Yes, I can!”
Exercise: Today, I want you to say to yourself (to a mirror if you want), “I am a successful [ ], [ ], and [ ] no matter what anybody say.” As a matter of fact, try to say that as often as You can.
Remember, You are like a Monarch butterfly. First you are born very small. then you grow and start your life by crawling, plain to the sight, but then you stop and change into a pupa. A few weeks later, you change into a wonderful powerful butterfly, not only a wonder to the eye, but also a strength of flight that can fly for hundreds of Miles. (Emrick Garam, Your Best : Your Life –You Can Change Your Life Around Today! @2012 )
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I hope that you will get the most of all this and attract faster anything You want in your life.
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Peace, Abundance, Happiness to You!
(The Monarch butterfly can fly very far. At 50 to 100 miles a day, some fly as far as 3,000 miles to reach their winter place! )