Dear Friends,
Happy New Year 2012! May all your Dreams come true!
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Here are some secrets to be happy.
* Live in the Here and Now.
Are you appreciating what you have/got? Or are you thinking, after receiving something (eg, a gift), I wish i had a more recent one, a better one? or , “what’s the next model, the higher end of this model, etc.” STOP! and… Appreciate what you receive, in the Here and Now. Rise the standard of appreciation of whatever you already have/got. Yes it could be better, but also, it could be worse, right? That is the definition of elevating your way of thinking, appreciate (and do not depreciate, decrease in value). See the value of what you have, and celebrate with all your heart.
* Happiness is Not in the Outside
As Marcia Shimoff mentioned in her book, Happy for No Reason , Happiness is a mis-constructed notion, an idea that is is coming with the realization in the outside of your self, of your mind. Where in fact it is a feeling that comes from an attitude in your life. Look at Julia Child, how dynamic and positive she was. She almost never complained, she took years to finish her cook book, and wanted a child she never had. She kept positive, focused, and probably was thankful to be anywhere she was living. Even she did not fit, literally , because of her size (she was 6’2!).
To continue with Marcia Shimoff philosophy, she says “We all have it backwards; it is when we are already happy that we attract whatever we want. ” Being happy is like to be a magnet to our desires being unfolded, in their manifestation or realization, or taking shape in the reality of your life!
In other words, if you think: “Once I have that X million dollars, I will finally be happy.” I say, ” No, that is not true.” Maybe for a short while, but not in essence. Let’s take an example. You say you want to win 2 million dollars for the house of your dreams. You buy it. Are you changed to someone different? did this change you? no! you are the very same person, with a 2 million dollars house.
(Note: Why 2 individuals being in the same condition, even in the worst condition, don’t respond the same way? because of their attitude. Why poor people in poor countries seem to be at their top of happiness? Because they enjoy whatever little they have, and get what is the essence of life, the essential stuff needed in Life.)
Now, let ‘s say that you think, “I have to work on the way I see my life, my reality, my job, and be more positive.” And several months pass. Are you the same as before you decided to work on your outlook of life? ” No, You changed and probably feel Happier because, as Wayne Dyer said, “If you change the way you look at life, the life you look at change.”
Yes, if you change the way you look at your life, your problems, your relationships, etc., you life will change entirely.
DO THIS NOW
Right now , take a pencil and paper, Title your list: I Am Grateful for the following: Then, list all the goods you received from Life-God-Source-Universe; all the stuff, all the good moments, all the improvements in your life, whatever it is, in the year 2011.Then write at the bottom of your list, “Thank You God-Source (or Universe) for all these good things, people, events, improvements I received in my life. Thank You. I am grateful for all of the above.”
Enjoy!
I hope that you will get the most of all this and attract faster anything in your life.
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Peace, and Abundance to You!
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Thank You!
Note: As we are starting this new year, I promised myself to write more often, and post more videos.