BEST YOUR LIFE – CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Dear Friends,
Happy New Year 2012! May all your Dreams come true!

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Here are some secrets to be happy.

* Live in the Here and Now.

 Are you appreciating what you have/got? Or are you thinking, after receiving something (eg, a gift), I wish i had a more recent one, a better one? or , “what’s the next model, the higher end of this model, etc.” STOP! and… Appreciate what you receive, in the Here and Now.  Rise the standard of appreciation of whatever you already have/got. Yes it could be better, but also, it could be worse, right?  That is the definition of elevating your way of thinking, appreciate (and do not depreciate, decrease in value). See the value of what you have, and celebrate with all your heart. 

* Happiness is Not in the Outside

As Marcia Shimoff mentioned in her book, Happy for No Reason , Happiness is a mis-constructed notion, an idea that is is coming with the realization in the outside of your self, of your mind. Where in fact it is a feeling that comes from an attitude in your life. Look at Julia Child, how dynamic and positive she was. She almost never complained, she took years to finish her cook book, and wanted a child she never had.  She kept positive, focused, and probably was thankful to be anywhere she was living. Even she did not fit, literally , because of her size (she was 6’2!). 

To continue with Marcia Shimoff philosophy, she says “We all have it backwards; it is when we are already happy that we attract whatever we want. ” Being happy is like to be a magnet to our desires being unfolded, in their manifestation or realization, or taking shape in the reality of your life!

In other words, if you think: “Once I have that X million dollars, I will finally be happy.”  I say, ” No, that is not true.”  Maybe for a short while, but not in essence. Let’s take an example. You say you want to win 2 million dollars for the house of your dreams. You buy it. Are you changed to someone different? did this change you? no! you are the very same person, with a 2 million dollars house. 

(Note: Why 2 individuals being in the same condition, even in the worst condition, don’t respond the same way? because of their attitude. Why poor people in poor countries seem to be at their top of happiness? Because they enjoy whatever little they have, and get what is the essence of life, the essential stuff needed in Life.) 

Now, let ‘s say that you think, “I have to work on the way I see my life, my reality, my job, and be more positive.” And several months pass. Are you the same as before you decided to work on your outlook of life? ” No, You changed and probably feel Happier because, as Wayne Dyer said, “If you change the way you look at life, the life you look at change.”

Yes, if you change the way you look at your life, your problems, your relationships, etc., you life will change entirely. 

DO THIS NOW

Right now , take a pencil and paper,  Title your list: I Am Grateful for the following: Then, list all the goods you received from Life-God-Source-Universe; all the stuff, all the good moments, all the improvements in your life, whatever it is, in the year 2011.Then write at the bottom of your list, “Thank You God-Source (or Universe) for all these good things, people, events, improvements I received in my life. Thank You. I am grateful for all of the above.”

Enjoy!  

 I hope that you will get the most of all this and attract faster anything in your life.

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Peace, and Abundance to You!

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Thank You!

Note: As we are starting this new year, I promised myself to write more often, and post more videos. 

How to face the economy crisis. Here is how Alan Cohen views economy. Maybe this is how we can slow down and maybe even stop the economy crisis? 

During the past 10 years, the economy is at the top of the list of the urgent issues triggering talks and new motions. In the US, the government is launching new policies and measures to try to solve the economic emergency and predicament.  Presenting some suggestions to deal with the economic stress and feel better, also to produce positive results. So this is Alan Cohen suggestions in the following plan. I am not an economic expert and so I don’t understand the mechanics of the economy because of its complexity; nevertheless this makes sense. 

Step 1: Seeing the Big Picture  

A good visionary person sees the Big Picture when facing the actual appearances proving the contrary.

The “big Picture is complete Abundance, infinite resources, balanced and healthy economic system, etc. to those who see these. A true visionary individual will flourish and succeed under any condition. There are at all time people who flourish in hard economic periods, and people who struggle in times of prosperity. It is not the current economy condition which decide for your well being. It is your consciousness face to it. So you have the power to create your own individual prosperous economy  on a personal level, and as you do this you may even uplift the general economy! For instance, the greatest achievements of the 20^th  century are the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco and the Empire State Building in New York City. Both were funded and constructed during the Great Depression. So some people did not let them affected by the general outlook on the harsh economic times, and the general beliefs of the masses. These are people who always will prosper even in the most difficult times, and so can you, and through your abundance you even can inspire others and help them to do so.

2 Trust the Higher Power

Whenever the human business seem to go down, the Divine approach become very real. This higher power is running the Universe better than even the most skilled economist experts. The more connected you stay with this Higher power, the more you will reach inner peace, and you skills to make sound money decisions.

Like Theseus in the Labyrinth, whenever you feel lost in the worldly life, hold on to your connection with True Spirit. There is a spiritual solution to every problem. And there is no more sound advice that this in these economic times.  

3  Danger and Opportunity  

The Chinese symbol for crisis in 2 symbols mixed into one ; It is “danger “ and “opportunity” . The danger that appears to be in the current situation. And also there is an opportunity . “all change is good”. Perhaps there is a natural balancing happening making the economy stronger. Whenever we face a crisis, we are moved to make decisions that improve our life, (our personal world).

4 Know your priorities:   

In an episode of “Fantasy Island “ a gambler lives his fantasy to create a winning streak. But mesmerized by his gambling, he forgets about his son. Finally he realizes that he is the luckiest man not for winning but for having his family. 

When money seems tight, we have a window of insight to see how rich we are. If we use this time to grow closer to our families, home, nature, activities that bring us joy, our true self, and our Higher Power , this disturbance serve us well!

5 Money needs to Circulate:   

We need to keep moving our energy, including financially . “All disease is due to a congestion, and all healing is the result of a good circulation.” This concept applies accurately to the economic situation.  Whenever people, are scared to spend money, there is less money in circulation; and then people are more afraid to spend, and so forth, and so on. But, when consumers act from abundance and trust, the dynamics shift.

So now is a good time to spend your money.  When you do that, you set the wheels of economics into motion. You set the wheels of Abundance in motion, you feel you have enough to spend, and money moves not just from you but to you! Yes , money goes around.

6 Live in the Now Every Moment

Don’t fool yourself thinking that you will relax and enjoy life when the current crisis is over. But that is like the carrot at the tip of the stick which you will never get. Either your life is rewarding right now, or it will never be. Now is the right opportunity to enjoy your day and your life, regardless of money. Stop , take a moment and say a nice word to the cashier, play with your spouse or kids, take a stride in the park, or do your hobby.

Everything always works out. Be cheerful, be uplifted and uplift others, and you will contribute to the economy, and to the spiritual world in a big way.

Peace, Abundance and Happiness to You! 

Peace,

The more you meditate, the more your inner peace grows. With your feelings and emotions, things start happening. “Feel the love that is around you! Feel it! And the Universe is going to correspond to the nature of your song…” Rev. M. B. Beckwith. This money meditation is one of the best I know. Enjoy, and share with your friends.

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO YOUR MONEY MEDITATION

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Peace, and Abundance to You!

So You Want to Get Published… Nothing wrong with that! You feel you have something valuable to share with the world, you carry an important message.  If you want to convey your message by mean of a book, you need to believe in your work.

You need to believe in yourself!

Barbara Kingsolver, Best-seller author of The Poisonwood Bible, said, “This manuscript of yours that has just come back from another editor is a precious package. Don’t consider it rejected. Consider that you’ve addressed it “to the editor who can appreciate my work” and it has simply come back stamped “not at this address.” Just keep looking for the right address.”

You have to handle rejections.

One of the best sellers, Chicken Soup for the Soul, has a story behind it.    Mark Victor Hansen and Jack Canfield had a great idea: collecting writings form people who have lived a great experience. THey went to New York with an agent, and met with major publishers. They answered, “Collections of short stories don’t sell ; this title will never work.” Even their agent, after being rejected 30 times, told them, “Sorry. I cannot sell it for you.” Did they give up? No!        They finally arrived to a struggling publisher. He read the manuscript, and… agreed to publish it! after over 130 rejections, their first book sold 8 million copies, went on to a series of 80 books, and were translated in 39 languages!

So… did they give up? No! 

Your success is in You.  Believe! Do Not give up! Persist, persevere, go on, continue, follow your gut feelings!

Success, Abundance, and Happiness to You!

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I want to remind you that it is true: Living “one moment at a time” is really successful living.  I have tried many approaches to live my life more fully, and I have to assert this: Live your life one moment at a time is something you must train yourself to do.  What do I mean? Detach yourself from your “dear ” future, your goals, your projects.  Live fully each passing moment with all your senses, and emotions, or feelings.  

About your future, your goals, your projects…

They will be taken care of, in perfect time. I guarantee this to you. Your Higher Self/Universe/Source or God is working on it, since the first time or moment you have expressed interest in it. Stop re-sassing or repeating what you want. This is not going to to make it faster, but maybe slow it down!
You have to realize (or be in the awareness of ) that you are in a constant changing state, with each passing moment giving you an opportunity to grow, or “expand”, in your awareness. The more you “pay attention” to the present moment, the more you feel and live fully the moment, or in the moment.

It is interesting to note that you will experience, being in that state, extremely blissful moments. Let me give you examples of some of my blissful moments. First, I have to tell you that I am very much into wild life appreciation.
I like to observe and appreciate animals of all kinds in each moment.
Yesterday, I was thinking “Oh, no rabbits on the trail… oh well!” and then a school of approx. 20 doves landed about 20 yards away from me. (I call this a blessing of doves.)
Today, a child held a small bunny in his hands, and let me hold it for a few moments. (I let my heart felt appreciation flow in my heart for this). This was Expanded Self/True Self/God/Source Universe answering my usually seeing rabbits on my walk.
Last week, I was hoping to see a deer walking by the road… A moment later, I saw two young deer, stopped and lo and behold, they were caught into a fence! I had to go and free one of them, felt her soft hair and her heart racing , as I was holding her to free her from her being stuck. I call this another blessing. I appreciated this moment of bliss.
About a month ago, I was saying that I didn’t see many hawks anymore. about 5 minutes later, a magnificent hawk landed in the tree in front of me, stayed for a good 5 to 8 minutes looking around, perched on another branch as to pause for having a good look on him, and then swooped very close to the ground, so we could admire his wonderful feathers. I appreciated this bliss.
These are just a few examples and proofs that The Expanded Self/God/Source/Universe is always there to answer to your wishes. I call these little miracles.
Many time people let these pass them by, and focusing on how stressed they may be. We are not here to suffer, but to enjoy life, to play in our life, and this is something you must be aware of. The more you let go of your pain, worries, and stress, the more you live fully, moment by moment, and successfully. Let go of your burden, live one step at a time, one moment at a time and your life will change to a series of miracles.
Believe me, this is something we have to live to realize, but give it a try.
Your life is now: Not yesterday, not tomorrow, not next year, not in 5, 10 years. Now.
Life is right now; enjoy it, feel the miracle of the moment unfolding, with expectation that your life is absolutely wonderful, miraculous, and a bliss of moments. And don’t forget to fully appreciate (or be grateful for) the moment of joy, give thanks, and continue your day by day path of miracles.

Your Life is Now!      Don’t miss it out!
Blessings to You!      Bliss to You!

Thoughts have been found to be more powerful than ever imagined with the birth of Quantum Physics led by eminent physicians such as Max Planck and Albert Einstein,  who were the founding fathers of Quantum Physics.

Only recently was the discovery of a strong catalyst, which gives an incredible exponential power to the thoughts [which become inner reality then outer reality or {your} world]. This catalyst I want to put a strong emphasis is : feelings, and/or emotions.  

Thinking of something without emotion is like praying without faith nor expectation for realization.  Also, there is one interesting thing about feelings. When you have the feeling of being happy, everything (including material things you want) will fall into place in your life.  

Quantum physics have also discovered that everything we think about, energized by our feelings, brings about a [created ] reality in our reality (defined as The Field of unlimited potential, by quantum physics).

 When you visualize your desire, you have to feel it.   “… and out of nothing, something will be made. All you have to do is feel it. feel it.” Rev. Michael B. Beckwith    

Blessings to You!   

I was watching The Shift, a movie with Wayne Dyer. There is a part that I want to write about Quantum moments.   There was a research with Men and Women, before and after having this “Quantum Moment”. They were asked to list what were their PRIORITIES in their life.

For MEN,    #1: WEALTH. MONEY. We are raised with the idea that we have to provide for our family. 2: ADVENTURE; to conquer the world. 3: ACHIEVEMENT. as men we are to achieve. that we are what we achieve, we create. 4: PLEASURE: Having fun, dating, etc. 5: RESPECT: If we don’t get respect, we argue,  etc.

AFTER the QUANTUM SHIFT, and many years later,  listing the Priorities, 1: Value #1: SPIRITUALITY i.o MONEY.   2:PERSONAL PEACE  less stress, less anxiety 3: FAMILY: Waht is really important in my life 4: GOD”S WILL: teh question of the sense of purpose. 5: HONESTY: Not stealing; How honest am I as a me, with my own feelings?  

WOMEN:   1: FAMILY: raised to be a good mother. 2: A SENSE of INDEPENDANCE: they would like to feel this. 3: CAREER: Women want to be part of the working society. 4: FITTING IN: to be like everybody else. 5: ATTRACTIVE: How do I look, how do I be more attractive? eg, Observe a newstand and women magasines.                

AFTER the SHIFT: 1: OWN PERSONAL GROWTH: HOw do I feel about myself , as a human being? 2: SELF-ESTEEM: Am I worth anything, Am I a valuable human being? 3: SPRITUALITY: My connection to God/ Source/ Universe 4 : HAPPINESS: I am entitled to be happy.  5: FORGIVENESS: Forgiving others to feel whole, the release in forgiving.  

What is a Quantum Moment?

It is a Vivid, Surprising, profound, lasting moment. He explains that after he changed restaurant with his 5 kids and wife for just one reason: he couldn’t have his beer with his meal.  Later on, he had this Quantum moment, where he felt, at 4 am, in Peace and Lucidity, and his mind became clear; and he thought about how he was selfish about his own need. This moment produces a Quantum Shift, where as a human being we are propelled at a higher level in our spirituality, in our thinking.

I hope this article will help you! I think it will, even though you may think that it is not always exactly correct, as I think, it is still worth something for our wisdom.

Peace, Happiness to You! 

 ’You don’t throw a whole life away because its banged up a little…’ from the movie Seabiscuit, one of my favorite.  This quote tells you how it is so easy to give up on someone else… but it is so important to give that someone else a second chance. Everybody deserves a second chance. So , when you feel like giving up on somebody, remember this sentence, and then think. You will see that thisis Wisdom. Too many give up so easily on others, and then wonder where their life has gone. It is important to support one another… and it gives so much pleasure to see how it ends! So,  ’You don’t throw a whole life away…because its banged up a little!

Blessings of Abundance and Joy to You!

Your Life is Now. Your Divinity is Here, with You, right Now.

“Miracles are everywhere around you; All you need to do is to be aware of it, and soon they will naturally reveal themselves to you.  Stop running breathless and relentlessly think about what’s next.  Just slow down and walk; soon you will see all what you’ve been missing while you were running. The Magic in your life: the birds singing their melody, the stream gurgling its peaceful whisper, the flowers blooming in majesty, the butterflies showing their colorful and magical wings, fluttering in a beautiful dance to the Divine Creator residing in your heart.” Emrick Garam

(excerpt from book #3)

Blessings of Abundance adn Happiness to You!

exerpt from book #3

Here is the talk about why I don’t believe in that God. 

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Blessings of Love and Abundance